The Church has been promoting the same approach to parenting for centuries with the same dire results. Two out of three children raised in Christian homes leave the church as young adults. This alone should cause us to step back and evaluate the method we are using. But instead, we plow onward with the same poor results believing that our method is Biblical. In this series, Amy Hayes will take you through a journey of discovering what the Bible really says about parenting. You will be shocked to find a beautiful, powerful approach that is peaceful, effective and reflects the Father's heart of love and forgiveness to our children. It was hidden there in plain sight all along!&nbsp; &nbsp;<a href="https://gracefulparenting.net/workshops">FREE WORKSHOP</a>

Why Traditional Christian Parenting is Failing - Ep 1

In this episode, I share the revelation that was the foundation of a whole new way of parenting found in the scriptures. Going back to Genesis we find the beginning of everything including how to parent our children (believe it or not). You will see how the traditional Christian approach to Parenting is not only unbiblical, but we have been doing the devil's work for him. You don't want to miss this episode.&nbsp; <a href="https://gracefulparenting.net/workshops">FREE WORKSHOP</a>

The Discovery that Rocked My World - Ep 2

What's so bad about knowing good and evil? It sounds like a good thing. But this is the same deception that Eve fell for. In this episode, we will take a close look at this deadly knowledge and see why teaching our kids right and wrong is a trap! The results are the same as they were for Adam and Eve - the loss of everything God had to offer them, just as God warned them.  In this episode, we continue to work on our new wineskin (mindset) when it comes to kids, parenting and our role as parents.  You will walk away enlightened!&nbsp; <a href="https://gracefulparenting.net/workshops">FREE WORKSHOP</a>

The Poison Fruit - Ep 3

We have seen how Traditional Christian Parenting is failing us and our children and learned that this approach models the Old Covenant. In addition, we have been feeding our children the poison fruit of the Tree of the Knowledge of Good and Evil. In today's program, we will shift gears to the way God intended us to parent and begin by examining the other Tree - the Tree of Life - to see what clues we can gain about His life-giving plan for parenting.&nbsp; <a href="https://gracefulparenting.net/workshops">FREE WORKSHOP</a>

Another Way - Ep 4

Perfect Love casts out fear because fear speaks of punishment. Sadly, traditional Christian parenting relies heavily on punishment. This is largely due to the misinterpretation of a handful of scriptures and the fact that we have misunderstood discipline and obedience. In this episode, we will demystify the subject of discipline and obedience. In addition, we will learn how to model the Father's heart of love in our parenting. A jam-packed episode!&nbsp; &nbsp;<a href="https://gracefulparenting.net/workshops">FREE WORKSHOP</a>

The Law of Love - Ep 5

For centuries the Church has taught that children are born sinful, driven by their sinful nature or both. But is that really true?  In today's episode, we will expose the truth about children and see what Jesus and the Father say about children in the Scriptures. The time is long overdue for this "sacred cow" to be roasted!&nbsp; <a href="https://gracefulparenting.net/workshops">FREE WORKSHOP</a>

Calling Innocent Evil - Ep 6 

In this episode, we will see how Father has designed children in such a way that makes it so easy for parents to shape their child's spiritual identity at an early age. We have addressed our children as if they think like adults and nothing could be further from the truth.  When parents learn how a child's brain is wired to receive information it's a game-changer and suddenly things make so much more sense.&nbsp; <a href="https://gracefulparenting.net/workshops">FREE WORKSHOP</a>

Rigged in our Favor - Ep 7 

Science has shown us that the subconscious mind runs our lives. Like software runs a computer, the subconscious runs our lives. In this episode we will see that what science calls the subconscious, the Bible calls the heart. In addition, we will see that parents have a unique opportunity to determine what gets "programmed" into their child's heart.&nbsp; <a href="https://gracefulparenting.net/workshops">FREE WORKSHOP</a>

Programming the Software - Ep 8

Every child comes into this world with the question "Who Am I?" How parents interact with him determines what the child comes to believe about himself.  Our true identity is what God says about us, but most of us grow up with a distorted view of ourselves. Until we know who we are in Christ, we will attempt to gain identity from what we do, instead of who we are. In this video we take a look at what it means to establish your child's identity in Christ at an early age, which is not only possible but the way God intended us to parent.&nbsp; <a href="https://gracefulparenting.net/workshops">FREE WORKSHOP</a>

The Age Old Question - Ep 9

There is One Thing every child comes into the world craving and can only get from their parents. This One Thing is the secret to successful parenting and most parents have never heard of it. Without this One Thing, a child may never know his parents love him and will go looking for love in all the wrong places, like gangs, drugs, promiscuity and the like. This One Thing is what made the difference for my children and instead of becoming the statistics they should have been, they are stable, productive, fulfilled adults. You don't want to miss this episode!&nbsp;<a href="https://gracefulparenting.net/workshops"> FREE WORKSHOP</a>

The One Thing - Ep 10

Scripture tells us that desired fulfilled is a Tree of Life. Our children are full of desires, but as parents, we are constantly denying them. Because of this, over time, children learn to suppress desire. The enemy loves this because, without desire, no one ever reaches their potential or fulfills their destiny.
In this video, I will teach you how to honor your child's desires without granting every wish. This keeps the flame of Desire alive in his heart which will fuel all of his future endeavors including fulfilling his God-given destiny.&nbsp; <a href="https://gracefulparenting.net/workshops">FREE WORKSHOP</a>

Desire Fulfilled is a Tree of Life - Ep 11

Guarding our heart is of the utmost importance, according to Solomon, the author of Proverbs. However, most of us have not been taught how to do this, let alone how to help our children do this. In this video, you will learn a simple 3-step process for how to do just that. No longer will you dread negative emotional events in your child but will realize these are the most important opportunities to connect with and guard your child's heart.&nbsp; <a href="https://gracefulparenting.net/workshops">FREE WORKSHOP</a>

Ep 12 - Above all Else 

Jesus tells us to be perfect as our heavenly Father is perfect. Heard through the ears of performance or behavior, this sounds like a tall order, a command to work harder to be better. But when we hear these words through the lens of identity, they take on a whole new meaning. In this episode we will take a look at the Scriptural context of this statement, what Jesus was saying and how it applies to parenting.  And of course, by now you realize these teachings also apply to our own lives as parents. <a href="https://gracefulparenting.net/workshops">FREE WORKSHOP</a>

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